A father admits he has a favorite child on his blog. This is nothing new. Most parents if they are honest with themselves will admit that they have a favorite child at least based on their personality types matching. Most parents will say although one shouldn’t write about it, they do have a favorite child.
Parents generally love and relate to their child differently, but they do have favorites. Some parents even have favorites depending on the day or the season they or their children are going through such as puberty and old age. Some parents like kids based on gender. Some father's have been known to show blatant preferential treatment to their daughters, while some mothers do the same thing for their sons. Some kids will say, “Mom always liked you better or “My sister was by far the favorite in the family!,” but as people who are constantly evolving I would caution parents from stamping the favorite child stamp on any one child because that child can change at any time.
However, this is the bottom line, although we may overlook this reality, parents and children are people and just like you like some people and you don’t like others, the same thing applies in parent child relationships too, but the right thing to do is to show equal love to all your children because you brought them all into this world without asking them for their permission, keep the knowledge of your favorite child to yourself and move on with your life…
A word is enough for the wise…
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